Join us for our next CAFE!
Thursday, January 24, 5:30-7:30
Childcare and a light dinner provided.
The CAFE is a place to meet other parents, community members, and Benjamin E. Mays staff members who are interested in making Mays and Pre-K at Rondo the best education experience possible. We talk about what our children need to succeed and we share ideas. Your voice is needed around our table. We build on the conversations from past CAFEs. Our next Mays CAFE will be on Thursday, January 24, 2019, 5:30-7:30. Childcare and a light meal will be provided. Transportation is available upon request (firstname.lastname@example.org or 651-325-2492).
Thank you to all of the parents, community members, and teachers who took part in the fall Mays CAFE and Annual Title I Night Thursday, September 27. We had a presentation on Title I at Mays and then launched into conversations inspired by these words from Benjamin E. Mays, "I believe that everyone is born into the world to do something unique and distinctive." What were you born to do? How do we help our children find and develop what they are supposed to do? Once again our group discussed the need of being a model and example to our children and to each other. The support we provide for our children comes in many forms. Listening, observing and providing opportuniites are all important things we do for each other and for our children as we develop and share our gifts. It is also good to embrace failure as part of learning.
Our previous Mays CAFÉ was our winter CAFE on Thursday, January 25, 2018. The 4th and 5th grade student performers from the Center for Culture, Families, and Learning (CCFL) culture classes did a fantastic job opening our evening. We had a quick conversation about winter weather policy in St. Paul and then discussed what we wanted to accomplish during the year, for both our ourselves and our children. One of the things we decided as a group is that attaining one’s goals and helping our children attain their goals takes planning, commitment, and encouragement. The best plans are reviewed and adapted along the way. As parents and teachers, it is important to model for our children what we want to see. It is also important to share our history and our struggles. We hope our children can stand on our shoulders and go further than we have. We are their stepping-stones to a better tomorrow.
During our fall Mays CAFE on Thursday, October 26, 2017; parents, teachers, community members and administration met to talk about educating our children. Building on past CAFEs, we examined the idea that, "it takes a village to raise a child." Below are the questions we asked and the answers that we came up with collectively.
- What is your role in the village?
Our roles are to identify and support the needs of our children and help them operate within different systems.
- What are challenges to your role?
When families and schools work together, one of the big challenges is understanding your role within the other system and how to step into that role. One of the other challenges is limited resources: time, money, people, emotions.
- How can we support each other’s role?
To understand our role within the other system we have to communicate (listen and speak), be vulnerable, ask questions, and seek other perspectives. We have to clearly identify needs and common goals and ask for help. If we are encouraging people to ask for support, we have to have a safe and respectful environment. Before people ask for support they need a relationship based in trust. We acknowledge building a trusting relationship is a process of small steps.
For each question at our CAFEs, a poster was created. The posters are shared below. The posters from the most recent CAFE will appear here when they are completed.